In a vibrant display of self-acceptance and celebration, former Vanderpump Rules star Dayna Kathan has publicly announced her identity as a late in life lesbian during Pride Month. Her announcement, made on June 7resonated deeply with fans and friends alike, marking a significant milestone in her personal journey.
Kathan’s revelation came through a heartfelt Instagram postwhere she shared a carousel of images featuring herself and friends, including Beartooth singer Caleb Shomowho recently came out as gay. Wearing a tank top emblazoned with the word GAYKathan’s post was a bold and joyful declaration of her identity. “Shout out to my fellow late in life lesbians!! HAPPY PRIDE!!!”, she wrote, embracing her newfound sense of self.
From Bisexual to Lesbian: A Journey of Self-Discovery
Kathan’s journey towards self-discovery began in 2019when she came out as bisexual on the popular Bravo reality series Vanderpump Rules. During a Pride-themed episode, she and fellow castmate Ariana Madix shared their experiences of being openly bi at Pride for the first time. “That was my first L.A. Pride ever though… but then I also came out as bi,” Kathan shared. “I just feel so much lighter now that that’s out there.”
The pair’s candid conversation highlighted the complexities of navigating sexuality and the relief that comes with being open. They affectionately referred to themselves as “bi sisters,” a term that captured their shared experiences and bond. Kathan’s time on Vanderpump Rules was marked by her growth from a supporting role to a beloved cast member, a journey that culminated in her departure from the show in 2026.
Life After Vanderpump Rules: Podcasting and New Beginnings
Since leaving Vanderpump RulesKathan has ventured into podcasting, co-hosting the popular show Disrespectfully with former castmate Katie Maloney. The podcast, which launched in 2026covers a range of topics, including dating, mental health, and pop culture. In a recent episode, Kathan welcomed Caleb Shomowho opened up about his own journey of coming out as gay after 14 years of marriage.
Kathan’s decision to leave Vanderpump Rules was a difficult one, but she expressed gratitude for the experience. “It was a tough decision for me, but ultimately the right one,” she told E! News. “I’m grateful for the experience and wish everyone on the show all the best!” Her podcasting endeavors have allowed her to continue engaging with her audience and exploring new aspects of her identity.
Celebrating with Friends and Fans
Kathan’s announcement was met with an outpouring of support from friends and fans. Katie Maloneyher podcast co-host, expressed her joy and affection. “My favourite lesbian! I love you so much!!!!!”, Maloney wrote. Aussie actor Kath Ebbs also chimed in, saying “See u in LA town soon gay.” One fan playfully commented, “Y’all on the front porch at Bette and Tina’s?”, referencing the iconic L Word filming location.
Kathan’s coming-out announcement is part of a broader trend of reality TV stars embracing their queer identities. Alongside Chrishell Stause from Selling Sunset and Gabby Windey from The BacheloretteKathan joins a growing list of prominent figures who have used their platforms to advocate for LGBTQ+ visibility. Her story resonates with many who have undergone similar journeys of self-discovery and acceptance.
As Pride Month continues, Kathan’s announcement serves as a reminder of the importance of authenticity and the power of community. Her journey from bisexual to lesbian is a testament to the fluidity of identity and the courage it takes to embrace one’s true self. With the support of her friends, fans, and the broader LGBTQ+ community, Kathan is poised to continue making a meaningful impact in the world of entertainment and beyond.
